陳情令 藍湛的情感態度成長路 Lan Zhan's Love Attitude Growth Road



  藍湛這個資優乖寶,在古板藍老的教育下,遵守著所謂的大道正統,一絲不苟的過著古水無波的日子。直到另一個同樣資優卻放浪不覊的魏嬰,因聽學走進了他的生活,帶給他完全不一樣的生活態度衝擊。
  Lan Zhan, a gifted and well-behaved baby, under the education of the old-fashioned Old Master Lan, abides by the so-called orthodoxy of the Dao, and lives a meticulous life without any waves. Until another equally talented Wei Ying broke into his life because of listening and learning, and brought him a completely different attitude towards life.

  玩擦邊球、上課打瞌睡、傳紙條、吃零食、捉弄同學、挑戰權威......種種被認為是「壞孩子」的另類思考行徑,居然出自於一個學問及劍術都和自己不相上下的同學。打破了藍湛對「成績頂好」的刻板印象。魏嬰的出現,無疑是為藍湛的單調黑白藍巨塔,開了一堆色彩繽紛的窗。
  Playing edge balls, dozing off in class, passing notes, eating snacks, teasing classmates, challenging authority... All kinds of alternative thinking behaviors considered to be "bad boys" come from a classmate who's knowledge and swordsmanship are not lost to him. It broke Lan Zhan's stereotype of "the best grades". The appearance of Wei Ying undoubtedly opened a bunch of colorful windows for Lan Zhan's monotonous black and white, blue tower.

  母親過逝後,再也沒有人會主動逗弄藍湛,
魏嬰那充滿創意又異於同學們的主動招惹,讓藍湛逐漸的被他吸引,慢慢的越來越在乎他。
  After his mother passed away, no one would take the initiative to tease Lan Zhan. Wei Ying was full of creativity and different from the active provocation of his classmates, which made Lan Zhan gradually attracted to him and caring about him more and more.


  可惜的是在魏嬰跳崖前,藍湛只成為他「曾經的畢生知己」。十六年的問靈間(編劇太壞了,十年就太長了,居然還用小龍女的十六年 - 藍湛應該是好好反省過以往的點點滴滴:思考為何他每每想安撫魏嬰的情緒都失敗,但師姐江厭離只要輕輕一句話,就可讓魏嬰心絮平穩下來。思考為何魏嬰心中師姐的地位高到當她為保護魏嬰而死,魏嬰會崩潰到毀掉陰虎符後跳崖
  Unfortunately, before Wei Ying jumped off the cliff, Lan Zhan only became his "lifelong confidant". Sixteen years of Asking the Spirit (the screenwriter is too bad, ten years is too long, and he still uses Xiaolongnu's sixteen years - anger), Lan Zhan should have reflected on the past bit by bit. Thinking about why he failed every time he tried to appease Wei Ying's emotions, but senior sister Jiang Yanli could calm down Wei Ying's heart with just a few words. Thinking about why in Wei Ying's heart, Senior Sister's status is so high, to protect Wei Ying and die, Wei Ying will collapse to the point of destroying the Stygian Tiger Amulet and jumping off a cliff.
  
  所以當魏嬰再次出現,藍湛不再積極的幫他重拾劍道,不再對他說「凝神」;為他準備他愛喝的,必要時護衛著他,永遠和他站在同一陣線。這是一個情感態度上的大躍進,從都是為了你好所以要你研習《洗華》,進步到無條件信任的陪伴支持。我想若是魏嬰開口說想吃他做的蓮藕排骨湯,藍湛大概也會努力研究怎麼做了吧!(原著中是有藍湛研究怎麼做蓮藕排骨湯的情節喔!)
  So when Wei Ying appeared again, Lan Zhan no longer actively helped him to pick up the sword art, and no longer told him "concentrate". Prepare him the wine he loves, guard him when necessary, and always stand with him. This is a great leap forward in emotional attitude: from for your own good, so I want you to learn the musical notation of "Absterge". Progress to the companionship and support of unconditional trust. I think if Wei Ying said that he wanted to eat the Lotus Root and Rib Soup he made, Lan Zhan would probably try his best to study how to do it! (In the original book, there is a plot of Lan Zhan researching how to make the Lotus Root and Rib Soup!)


  為了保護魏嬰並成就彼此的共同願望「除奸扶弱,無愧於心」,藍湛還接下了仙督的擔子。因為他明白,以他一人之力罩不了心願鴻大,行動義無反顧的魏嬰(十六年前就證明了;所以他必需要有話語權,且是一發話沒人敢吭聲的那種。這樣的話語權不能是魏嬰手握陳情生氣說話的那種,所以仙督的至高地位,才是保障魏嬰最好的辦法。
  In order to protect Wei Ying and fulfill each other's common wish "to curb the violent and assist the weak, and have no regrets.", Lan Zhan also took over the burden of the Excellency. Because he understands that he can't protect Wei Ying, who has a big wish and acts without hesitation (proved sixteen years ago). Therefore, he must have the powerful right to speak, he kind that no one dares to say when he speaks. Therefore, the supreme status of Excellency is the best way to protect Wei Ying.

  於是藍湛從高冷的不屑與人交談,改變為會對懷桑回禮的仙督;整部戲藍湛只在最後一集後段對懷桑回禮那麼一次,還有一次主動作揖是為了要他開先人棺,早期的藍湛是不屑和懷桑說話和回禮的,甚至在懷桑突然出現在街上嚇魏嬰時,還瞪過他;但仙督要做得長久,不能只靠武力強大(溫家失敗了)或財力雄厚(金家也失敗了),還需要玄門百家心干情願的支持;為了完成共同的願望,藍湛改變了對其他人的態度。
  So Lan Zhan changed from a cold disdain to talk to people to a Excellency who would return salute to Huaisang. In the whole play, Lan Zhan only returns to Huaisang once in the last episode. Another time, he took the initiative to bow to ask him to open the coffin of his ancestors. In the early days, Lan Zhan was disdainful to talk to and greet Huaisang, and even glared at him when Huaisang suddenly appeared on the street to frighten Wei Ying; But to do Excellency for a long time can't just rely on strong force (the Wen Clan failed) or strong financial resources (the Jin Clan also failed). He also needs the willing support of other Clans. In order to fulfill the common wish, Lan Zhan changed his attitude towards others.

  

  人的一生何嘗不是一條學習如何去愛的道路;有的人終其一生學不會如何愛,即使已長大成人,也還不明白愛一個人,是給他尊重及自由並給予能力所及的支持;太多是一昧的為了你好,所以要你順我意的改變。都不明白這麼做,只不過是愛自己,要人作順自己眼的小乖乖罷了。
  A person's life is a way to learn how to love; Some people can't learn how to love all their lives. Even if they are grown up, they still don't understand that to love someone is to give them respect, freedom and support within their ability. Too much is ignorant for your own good, so I want you to change according to my will. They don't even understand doing this, it's just to love themselves and ask people to be obedient little ones who do what they want.

   如果大家像聰明的藍湛一樣學會如何去愛別人 - 不是藍爸的「帶回去,藏起來」,而是互相扶持的努力給彼此一條好走的陽關道;天資有限的,至少可以做到安靜陪伴,珍惜對方。能力夠、有一定成就的再給予彼此庇護、支持及榮耀。這世界多一點這樣的人,應該就會少一點因感情問題而造成的社會事件吧!
   If everyone learns how to love others like the wise Lan Zhan - It's not Father Lan's "take it back and hide it", it's the efforts of mutual support to give each other a good road. Those with limited talent can at least accompany them quietly and cherish each other. Those who are capable and have certain achievements will give each other shelter, support and glory. If there are more people like this in this world, there should be less social incidents caused by emotional problems!
  

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